"I've tried everything - and failed . . . nothing works! I will never solve this problem."
Are you Struggling with premature ejaculation and looking for a solution that really works?
Anyone who has been trying to break free from premature or inhibited ejaculation will probably have tried all kinds of techniques and strategies, many of which are available on the internet, or in this or that latest book.
In the domain of the “inner life”, of which sex is most definitely a part, all fragmentary knowledge can be a source of danger. Scattered pieces of information lead either to confusion and legalistic adherence, or possible further sexual dysfunction and even mental health problems.
Only a complete programme that begins with establishing a secure mind-body relationship, balances the body chemistry, and prescribes techniques in a step-by-step sequential order, offers a certain method against the dangers of a fragmentary approach.
This hybrid programme combines over six hours of comprehensive online step-by-step video lessons that you can follow at your own pace (with life-time access to the videos and downloadable accompanying literature). PLUS: You will have my direct support every month on an online live group mentoring session.
When you enrol in this programme, you become automatically entitled to twelve-months membership to a monthly live group mentoring session with me.
I understand that discussing such personal issues in a group setting might sound intimidating. That is why we prioritise confidentiality and provide a supportive, respectful and safe monthly experience, where you can learn directly from me, and also from the experience of others who are on a similar journey to your own.
The monthly live group mentoring sessions provide the added benefit of shared experiences and collective wisdom, helping you realise that you are not alone.
This membership is exclusive and unique to those who have enrolled on this programme.
You will be free to choose to attend regularly or occasionally.
You may attend with your camera either on of off
You can also choose to use your real name in this group session, or an AKA.
You will learn:
How to distinguish between arousal and ejaculation cycles
How to control anxiety symptoms
How to master negative thoughts
How to recognise the difference between ejaculation and orgasm
You will discover:
Your Three Brains
Your Master-Mind
Your will
Your power to choose
Your subconscious mind
You will master:
Your personal ejaculation scale
Your thoughts
Your feelings
Your sex muscles
You will be able to:
Release trapped sex energy from your sex centre
Spread sexual energy throughout your whole body
Ejaculate when you choose
Make love until you decide to finish
The structure of the ICASA programme is designed to lead you through three phases of understanding and personal development: the Theoretical Phase, the Metaphysical Phase, and the Practical Phase
Modules 1 to 3
The Theoretical Phase is where we begin, the starting point. This Phase consists of seven lessons grouped in three “modules”. The first module teaches how to Build a Solid Foundation; the second module how to Master Negative Thoughts, and the third module in this Phase concerns how to Understand Feelings.
You will discover how to slow your mind and heart-rate down, lower the level of adrenaline in your body and decrease anxiety. You will learn and experience how to master negative thoughts, get in touch with sensations, emotions and body feelings. And you will begin to connect with the power of your will and, as a result, the ability to choose.
Modules 4 to 6
The second phase is the metaphysical phase. It is in this phase that the magic happens. It is this element that makes this programme distinctive and enables you to master your sex life, not simply to manage the current sexual problem.
The Metaphysical Phase consists of eleven video lessons, also grouped within three modules. The first module in this phase helps you to connect with your "master-mind". The second module helps you to develop self-awareness. In the third module you will discover how to connect to your personal ejaculation scale. Also included in this module are three important guided meditation videos focussing on: The Settled Mind, Opening the Pineal Gland and Transforming Subconscious Beliefs.
In this phase, you will discover how to reach the space between your thoughts. You will connect with your higher faculties of intuition, perception, self-awareness, concentration and creative imagination; beyond the five ordinary senses. You will develop the capacity to be present and to avoid distracting thoughts and obsessive thinking.
Modules 7 to 10
The Practical Phase consists of four modules and a total of ten video lessons. The first module in the Practical Phase concentrates on intimate touch; the second module is how to transform your masturbation practice; the third module is self-pleasuring mastery and the fourth module is love-making.
This third phase helps you to put all the previous lessons together and to master your arousal and ejaculation cycles through advanced self-pleasuring practices, during which you will master hidden techniques that spread sexual energy and sensations throughout your body, rather than it being trapped in the genitals.
The value of any curriculum is proven by the results it brings. This programme won’t change you unless you engage fully in the process by studying all the video lessons and practising the exercises that are set. The programme will enable you to connect with your inner confidence and power, but it cannot, or will not, do the work for you.
Ejaculation control will be achieved through your own personal direct experience, born from commitment and perseverance.
It is vital for you to know that it is you who has discovered your own self- empowerment rather than any external force or presence, including this Programme.
The lessons and the prescribed “exercises”, all of which can be practised either alone or with a partner, will create a powerful effect within you.
Subtle changes will begin almost immediately and so long as you practice the exercises daily, you will begin to notice changes in your life after two weeks. Old ways of looking at things will begin to shake loose. Your past conditioning that had such a defining stamp upon your life begins to lose its hold. You will experience a sense of wanting more; a feeling of excitement and anticipation every time you start a new video lesson or begin your daily practice of the exercises you are working on.
This is a powerful process, but like anything that is authentically powerful, there are potential hurdles. The most common problem arises from impatience. It is tempting to get straight into the Practical Phase before working your way through the Theoretical and Metaphysical Phases. Understandable as this inclination is, that rush to the outer practices means that the inner changes that take place in the mind, the nervous system and the glands will not have been affected sufficiently and, consequently, the practical exercises are in danger of being less effective than they should be.
The work of self-transformation and empowerment is more than merely changing your masturbation or lovemaking technique. The physical, mental, intuitive and instinctive aspects of the mind must be prepared for the influx of new forces.
If you have the courage to begin, it is important to take seriously what is happening every day, and examine every issue and change that arises. Impatience is only the first resistance to deal with. This is the main reason for the monthly online mentoring sessions for all participants in the Programme: so that you are not left alone to deal with issues as they arise without being able to share problems, ask questions and learn directly from me, and most importantly, from the experiences of other members in the programme
You should allow yourself between six months and possibly up to twelve-months to completely resolve the entire programme. That includes watching and studying the 31 videos and practicing the prescribed exercises. Spread over twelve months this amounts to watching and understanding between 2-3 videos per month, daily practice of the exercises and attending the online mentoring class once a month.
Over six hours of teaching and instruction through 28 video-lessons.
Downloadable literature accompanying every lesson.
Three guided meditations.
Automatic 12 month membership to monthly online group mentoring session.
Personalised telephone or email support for essential enquiries and guidance.
VAT.
I am David Brown, founder of The School of Intimacy, Consciousness and Self-Awareness (ICASA), where we help individual men, women and couples to overcome sexual problems, to develop sexual self-confidence and to deepen intimate relationships through The ICASA Ten-Step Recovery Programme.
I have made it my lifelong quest to study and practice the many spiritual and sexual paths—and also modern therapeutic and medical discoveries— that lead to personal freedom and transformation. For the past thirty years I have proven the effectiveness of these spiritually scientific methodologies and techniques through my continuous professional practice in this highly specialised field of therapy and mentoring.
These testimonials are genuine and from real clients; but due to the nature of the work, their identity must remain anonymous. Client confidentiality is of the utmost importance in my practice.
“The teaching was so much more powerful than what I had envisaged at the outset . . . not just about technique but fundamental changes in my whole state of being.”
G.S., age 53, UK 2022
“But my learning must go on. Now I have this reference material to remind myself of the important shifts and changes in my way of looking at myself, my relationship and sex.”
F., age 46, UK 2024
“Right now, it’s difficult to know fully how I really feel; maybe time will reveal it, or maybe I’m not supposed to feel anything special. Maybe this is the feeling of being normal!”
K.J., age 49, UK 2023
“I am so thankful. My reward is now being able to make intimate relationships, have sex and experience pleasurable emotions without the constant fear of failure.”
R.M., age 46, UK 2024
“I am so pleased that I picked up the phone to speak to David just over twelve months ago. I now know there is nothing wrong with me, and there is no going back.”
J.D., age 64, UK 2024
"Well, I really never thought that I would get to this point. ICASA has changed my life and I will always be grateful. I particularly want to thank David for all your support and therapy and friendship. Regardless of what happens in my life now, thanks to your help I have beaten my biggest demon and I can now look forward with confidence".
E.H., age 35, UK 2019
"The most important lesson I learnt was about willpower. All this time I've been relying on techniques to help, but never made a firm decision myself that I was in charge of my body and that it will respond the way I wanted to and not act independently to my will. I'm looking forward to moving into more challenging situations and experiencing these with an open/exploratory-mind."
A.M., age 26, Australia 2013
"...I feel like a part of me that has been missing is starting to be found and I am very excited about what the future may hold for me romantically. The use of the word romance is a big step for me, as until I put myself into the Programme, I knew something was missing in my life but didn't know quite what.
Thank you to you all for your patience, understanding and helping me find a different part of me!"
Y., age 32, UK 2018
"I consider I am in wholly better place than before I started the ICASA programme in 2013. David's wise words and understanding have helped me to see my anxieties for what they are. This has boosted my self-esteem and I no longer feel so inadequate and helpless."
M.A., age 66, UK 2015
"My biggest learning in my journey through the ICASA programme is that deep down I had nothing to learn that I did not already know. David told me on my first visit in August 2009 that there was nothing wrong with me. Intimacy is the natural state of being. I have finally proven to myself that this is indeed the truth".
G., age 38, Ireland 2010
"Dear David; I wanted to thank you for your help in this journey... a Hero's journey! You have been an integral part of this, and my sessions with you have not only helped me sexually but become more of a man outside. You have been a mentor I never had."
J.T., age 47, UK 2019
"Whatever I write will not do justice to what you and the ICASA process has done for me. It is more the internal changes which can't be expressed on paper and the external changes within my life that reflect what you and ICASA have done for me..."
M.Z., age 45, UK 2015
"I have learnt so much more about myself from my time with ICASA. I like myself much more and feel free from the anger I carried every day. I now feel much more confident because I understand myself so much more and can be open and unapologetic about it. My partner and I are happier together than we have ever been... Life is a journey."
N. P., age 71, UK 2021
The aim of this programme is to enable you to master the causes of premature ejaculation and take control of your thoughts, your nervous system and sensations so that you can make love for as long as you choose to, and then decide whether or not to ejaculate.
Because this is not a conventional treatment course; it is a transpersonal in-depth sexual self-development programme that will help you to transform your life from the inside-out, at a cellular level.
Your success in breaking free from premature ejaculation is not dependent upon external devices, pills, creams or potions claiming to solve the problem. These things can, in fact, contribute towards making the problem worse by de-sensitising a man’s conscious self-awareness.
Everything you need to become free from premature ejaculation actually lies within yourself. You are the solution you have been looking for and in this programme, I will guide you step by step to connect with it.
This programme ideally should be approached with an expectation of between six to twelve months; depending on your circumstances, discipline and persistence.
Every video is important. Don’t skip any lessons. Don’t rush to the end before gaining all the self-knowledge along the way. Premature ejaculation itself happens because your mind skips to the end without being present! If you take each lesson in turn and practise the homework experiences, you will master your ejaculation cycle.
You can break free from premature ejaculation with the help of this programme whether you are in a current relationship or single. You will discover how to achieve mastery of your thoughts, your nervous system, glands, your genitals and, as a consequence, your state of being undergoes changes at a cellular level.
I have personally helped hundreds of men in my professional practice with this programme, and I have witnessed their transformation from chronic, life-long premature ejaculators to sexually confident men.
You are definitely not the worst case in the world, and this programme will help you to break free from the limitations and constraints that negative thinking places upon you, and to enable you to fulfill your true potential in your life and relationships.
There is no nudity in the videos. I will be your guide and mentor throughout the entire programme and will explain everything you need to understand, and how to practise the homework exercises that are so vital for your inner transformation. This is a serious, in-depth sexual self-development programme. It isn’t necessarily going to excite you, or entertain you, and it is not going to do anything to you; what it will do is to help you to change and transform yourself, your relationship and your life. A complete life-change; nothing less than that.
There is no requirement to have any spiritual or religious background, understanding or belief. If you do, however, you can rest assured that there is nothing in the programme that will disturb or contradict any of your personal values or beliefs.
Take your time, and question everything. I don’t ask you to believe everything I say. I don’t even ask you to understand everything I say at first; just keep an open mind, study one lesson at a time, and do the practices. You will slowly and gradually realise that you are changing from the inside-out. Transformation comes as a result of opening new pathways in the brain, sometimes known as raising one’s consciousness. This isn’t something that happens immediately; it’s a process.
When you enrol onto the programme, irrespective of whether you have partially or totally paid, you will have immediate access to all its contents; in this case, videos and downloadable literature.
For this reason, and in line with the UK Consumer Contracts Regulations, which came into force on 13 June 2014, The School of ICASA does not offer refunds for online programme enrollments.
If you are still uncertain and have questions that you would like to discuss before enrolling on the programme, you can request a completely free 30 minute telephone consultation with me, without any further obligation.